Monday, April 9, 2018

Device Free Dinner Challenge

The 8th graders from KRMS were in Washington, D.C. this past week for their annual class trip.  On Thursday night, they experienced a dinner at the Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts.  One of the chaperones decided to take action with the constant cell phone use.  She went around to each table and requested that all students place their cell phones in the middle of the table and enjoy the company of their classmates for a few minutes during this meal.  While it only lasted for a few short moments, students did comply with putting their phones down until they finished their meal.  

Could it be as easy as making this simple request to your kids at dinner time?  Probably not.  Don't fret, though, because Common Sense Media has a Family Guide for this challenge.  Common Sense Media links to a resource that has conversation starters, pickles & predicaments, challenging conversations, recipes for conversation shareables and conversation starter shareables.  


The Common Sense Media Family Guide on Device Free Dinners includes links to several articles.  One that I found particularly interesting was about Steve Jobs being a low tech parent despite being a high tech giant.  Another one that was helpful is from The Family Dinner Project and it's called Technology at the Table.  These are some of the questions asked in the article:
  • Would you expect someone whose job revolves around technology to limit its use within their own home?  Why or why not?
  • Should the same rules that apply to kids apply to parents?  Why or why not?
  • Can you think of any reasons why it's sometimes good to take a break from screen time?

I hope that you will find the resources from Common Sense Media on Device Free Dinners helpful and that you will share your own advice on how you manage this in your home.

Check out this video about Device Free Dinners in the News.  


Monday, April 2, 2018

Service Dog at KRMS!


 We are fortunate enough in the Middle School, to have a service dog.  That’s right!  A dog in our school, that is keeping one of our wonderful kids, safe and healthy!  I will be honest, I know what a service animal is and what they are used for.  I know basic, very basic rules of etiquette for a service dog.  I have learned a lot now that we have a dog in our school community, and I am loving every minute of it!  I thought I would pass along some of the info and resources, so you can learn about it too.


Service animals are highly trained working animals, that are skilled in assisting people with all types of disabilities.  Individuals with hearing and vision impairments, Diabetes, stability issues, seizure disorders, the list goes on.  It is truly amazing how they can pick up on the slightest thing. 

I am going to bring you back to when I was a Hospice Nurse.  I worked for the VNA, and had the pleasure of being with patients and their families throughout the dying process.  

I will never forget a certain husband and wife.  The husband was terminally ill, and planned to stay at home till the end.  The couple had 3 very loud, yippy dogs that took a while to get used to.  They were very protective of their owner, and as time went by, they allowed me into their world, and let me care for their owner.  As the months passed, and their owner declined, the dogs became quieter, calmer and stayed close by.  They growled at times, even when the wife tried to help her husband.   I will never forget, the wife asked ‘how will I know that death is close?’, and my response was “your dogs will let you know”.  Later that night, the dogs would not leave her husband’s bed, close to his side, and did not move until their owner passed away.  The on call nurse was called, and the wife told her that she knew right away when the dogs changed their behavior.   

SO...on a lighter note...What does this look like for our school?  A service dog in the school setting means, the dog will be part of our community.  Seen in classes,  sporting events, activity nights, the cafeteria and on the bus.  Leashed and in control, but still an animal in the school.

While Service dogs are working, no matter where they are, there is a strict “no touch policy.”  If the dog is distracted, it takes their attention away from their person, therefore lessening their effectiveness.  The owner and dog have a routine and a bond.  For middle school students, and staff, we need to be respectful of the dog and the dog’s purpose while in the school. 

Service dogs get breaks, and get to play.  But keep in mind, they are trained to live their life to serve their owner (which I believe most dogs are like this instinctively), but this is more strict. 


If you are concerned about allergies, we are told that there is animal dander almost everywhere we go.  The potential exposure is minimal since the dog is with the student, around the clock, and there is no petting of the dog while in school.  KRMS has a limited amount of carpeted areas throughout the school where pet dander could settle.


Here is a link to a CNN video segment, featuring Elle Shaheen, who resides in Portsmouth NH with her Diabetic Medic Alert dog, Coach. 

Also, please refer to the KRSD Service Animal Policy for the District on the district web page.  

This has been such a fun topic to learn about, talk about, and now see, in our school!